Perhaps it is his kind disposition and infectious smile, but animals have always known that they had a protector and loving friend in Ken Wesolowski. After meeting him, it isn’t hard to understand why such a kind man, who loves and is loved by animals, would be loved and cared for so fiercely by his family.
Ken survived lung cancer but has Alzheimer's disease, and while he does not remember his cancer, nothing has diminished his love for his family—or his animals. And his family has become his memory.
“We met 51 years ago. I looked at him and he looked at me. That was it,” Ken’s wife Joan said. “I knew I had to get her,” Ken interjected.
While at the Abramson Cancer Center, Ken received chemotherapy and daily radiation therapy under the care of William Levin, MD, Medical Director of the Penn Radiation Oncology Network Clinical Assistant Professor of Radiation Oncology and Tracey Evans, MD, but they also sought out Abramson Cancer Center nutritionist Katrina Claghorn, MS, RD, CSO, LDN, who worked with the family to create an individualized nutrition plan for Ken.
“We were so happy at Penn, with the care he received,” Joan said. “I know it sounds crazy, but I loved it there and miss going every day! The people, from the nurses to Katrina to Drs. Levine and Evans, all made us feel like Ken was the most important patient in the whole world. We love all of them.”
The cancer journey is fraught with stress and uncertainty, and animals often provide a much needed emotional lift and outlet. The Roberts Proton Therapy Center at Penn Medicine’s Abramson Cancer Center has a Radiation Oncology Dog Therapy Program, which takes place in the waiting room every Tuesday, and brings calm and solace to ACC patients. Studies have shown that the simple act of petting a dog can lower blood pressure and heart rate—read about Penn Medicine’s therapy dog Finn here. But the Wesolowski’s were lucky to have their own special animal healing program at home—with their goats, dog, and any other wild animal that happened upon their house’s barn.
“He would carry the dog down to the barn to feed and visit with the goats every day, giving them carrots, saltines, and only the best hay available,” his daughter Lori recalled.
Ken’s radiation therapy took place two years ago, when the Polar Vortex wrapped Philadelphia in bitter cold, and Joan and Lori slept in the hospital so they wouldn’t miss a treatment.
“We never left his side, just kept rotating because we weren’t going to leave him alone, not for a minute,” explained Lori.
Ken never met a stranger and was always the most popular man on any dance floor, and a true partner and kindred spirit, Joan Wesolowski’s good humor and zest for life is also infectious.
“Our mom is so loving and giving and she runs circles around me and my sister, always planning outings and making Sunday dinner for the whole family. She even had a way of making sleeping in a hospital room a blast,” said Lori.
While they worked to keep laughing in the face of a terrible ordeal, Ken got well.
“He would be in bed all curled up sick as a dog but still asking about his goats and would look at us and say, ‘isn’t this fun?’ with that beautiful smile of his, ” recalled Lori.
Has an animal or pet played a special role in your cancer treatments? Share your story by contacting Fern Neibauer Cohen at Fern.Nibauer-Cohen@uphs.upenn.edu or (215) 662-3919. Learn more about the pet therapy program by contacting Christina Bach, MBE, MSW, LCSW, OSW-C at christina.bach@uphs.upenn.edu or (267) 438-2417.
Ken survived lung cancer but has Alzheimer's disease, and while he does not remember his cancer, nothing has diminished his love for his family—or his animals. And his family has become his memory.
“We met 51 years ago. I looked at him and he looked at me. That was it,” Ken’s wife Joan said. “I knew I had to get her,” Ken interjected.
A True Renaissance Man
Ken was born with a thirst for adventure that led to travel and careers in engineering and as an art dealer. But a consummate family man, his heart was always at home. The kind of dad who taught his daughter to catch garden snakes and remove ticks from the heads of field mice, he instilled a love for animals that continues to his grandchildren.While at the Abramson Cancer Center, Ken received chemotherapy and daily radiation therapy under the care of William Levin, MD, Medical Director of the Penn Radiation Oncology Network Clinical Assistant Professor of Radiation Oncology and Tracey Evans, MD, but they also sought out Abramson Cancer Center nutritionist Katrina Claghorn, MS, RD, CSO, LDN, who worked with the family to create an individualized nutrition plan for Ken.
“We were so happy at Penn, with the care he received,” Joan said. “I know it sounds crazy, but I loved it there and miss going every day! The people, from the nurses to Katrina to Drs. Levine and Evans, all made us feel like Ken was the most important patient in the whole world. We love all of them.”

“He would carry the dog down to the barn to feed and visit with the goats every day, giving them carrots, saltines, and only the best hay available,” his daughter Lori recalled.
Home is Where the Heart Is
“When someone is sick, you have to be their voice. My whole family rallied around mom and dad. Mom took care of him, we took care of my mom, and he took care of his goats. We advocated for him to get a feeding tube when his dehydration and weight was becoming a concern, and learned ways to keep his weight up from Katrina, the nutritionist,” said Lori.Ken’s radiation therapy took place two years ago, when the Polar Vortex wrapped Philadelphia in bitter cold, and Joan and Lori slept in the hospital so they wouldn’t miss a treatment.
“We never left his side, just kept rotating because we weren’t going to leave him alone, not for a minute,” explained Lori.
Ken never met a stranger and was always the most popular man on any dance floor, and a true partner and kindred spirit, Joan Wesolowski’s good humor and zest for life is also infectious.
“Our mom is so loving and giving and she runs circles around me and my sister, always planning outings and making Sunday dinner for the whole family. She even had a way of making sleeping in a hospital room a blast,” said Lori.
While they worked to keep laughing in the face of a terrible ordeal, Ken got well.
“He would be in bed all curled up sick as a dog but still asking about his goats and would look at us and say, ‘isn’t this fun?’ with that beautiful smile of his, ” recalled Lori.
Has an animal or pet played a special role in your cancer treatments? Share your story by contacting Fern Neibauer Cohen at Fern.Nibauer-Cohen@uphs.upenn.edu or (215) 662-3919. Learn more about the pet therapy program by contacting Christina Bach, MBE, MSW, LCSW, OSW-C at christina.bach@uphs.upenn.edu or (267) 438-2417.